十个原因告诉你 为什么你的朋友那么少

6. You Get Jealous

你爱嫉妒

If you feel jealous when your friend buys a new car, gets a promotion at work, or enters into a new relationship, it’s likely going to lead to problems. It’s important to celebrate with your friends and feel happy for them when they succeed. If you’re always feeling jealous, your attitude will likely shine through, even if you try to hide it.

当朋友买新车、升职、发展新恋情时，你若心生妒意，问题就会随之而来。当对方成功时，要与之同庆，与之同乐，这点很重要。可若你总是嫉妒他人，久而久之那份妒意就会暴露出来，不管你伪装得多么努力。