十个原因告诉你 为什么你的朋友那么少

5. You Keep Score

计较友情的公平

Keeping score has no place in true friendship. If you try to keep score about whose turn it is to choose where you’re going to dinner or whose turn it is to call who, you will likely turn your friends away. Be willing to give to the relationship, rather than focus on trying to keep everything fair.

真挚的友谊容不下所谓的公平。如果你老是纠结下回轮到谁来决定聚餐点，或老是犹豫下回该给谁打电话，那你可能就会失去你的朋友。友谊是自然而然的关系，而非斤斤计较每件事情的公平性。