十个原因告诉你 为什么你的朋友那么少

3. You’re Selfish

你很自私

Consider whether or not being selfish contributes to the fact that you don’t have friends. Friendship requires you to give, even when you don’t feel like it. If you’re only willing to do what you want, when you want it, it’s unlikely that your friends will tolerate it for very long.

你对于是否自私的态度直接影响着你有无朋友。友情需要付出，即便有时你不怎么愿意。若你只是随心所欲地行事，关于你的任性，朋友们可能不会长时间忍受下去。