感情问题会损害少女精神健康

As for why relationship inauthenticity increased the risk of mental health problems for girls, but not for boys, Soller said, “Romantic relationships are particularly important components of girls’ identities and are, therefore, strongly related to how they feel about themselves —good or bad.
对于为什么恋爱关系的不真实性增加了女孩产生精神问题的风险，而对男孩却没有影响。索勒说“恋爱关系是女孩特性的特别重要的组成，因此，与她们对自己感觉如何有很重要的关联——好或者不好”。

“As a result, relationships that diverge from what girls envision for themselves are especially damaging to their emotional well-being.”
“因此，那种偏离她们渴望的恋爱关系尤其损害她们的精神健康”。

On the other hand, Soller said relationships are not as important to boys’ identities.
另一方面，索勒说，恋爱对男孩来说没有那么重要。

“Boys may be more likely to build their identities around sports or other extracurricular activities, so this could be why they are not affected by relationship inauthenticity,” he said.
“男孩更加有可能发展他们在运动或者其他业余活动上的特性，所以这可能是为什么他们不被恋爱的不真实性影响的原因”他说。

In terms of the study’s policy implications, Soller said parents, educators, and policymakers should think about how to help girls construct identities that are less closely tied to romantic involvement.
按照研究策略表示，索勒说父母，教育工作者，政策制定者应该考虑如何帮助女孩构建与恋爱无关或与恋爱少有关联的特性。

“Helping girls build their identities around things other than romantic relationships may mitigate the effects of relationship inauthenticity on their mental health,” he said.
“帮助女孩发展她们在其他事情上的兴趣而不是恋爱可以缓和恋爱的不真实性对她们精神健康的影响”，他说。

Soller also suggested that creating programs and interventions aimed at providing adolescents with tools to help them better control how the events in their relationships play out may lead to romances that enhance adolescent mental health and other developmental outcomes.
索勒建议创建程序和干预措施，旨在为青少年提供工具，帮助他们更好地控制她们关系的进展可能会促进青少年的心理健康和其他成长成果。