想做讨人喜欢的人 16件事情要努力

Being likeable has its benefits — you'll have an easier time scoring your dream job and making friends. Recently, some Redditors shared some advice for making yourself more likeable. Here are some of the top tips:

讨人喜欢的人常常可以得到很有好处—你可以更加容易地得到结交朋友或得到理想的工作。最近，一些Redditor分享了一些能够令自己变得更可爱的建议。下面是其中一些最实用的建议：

1. They smile — a lot. Seeing a smile makes other people happy, so if you're smiling when you're interacting with someone, he'll find you easy to like and friendly.

1. 他们经常—微笑。一个简单的微笑能够感染身边其他的人，所以，如果你在交流时能够微笑的话，别人会感觉你更加友好和平易近人。

2. They ask people questions. There's nothing people love more than to talk about themselves. They will find the conversation more memorable and positive if they spend time talking about themselves.

2. 他们会提问。谈论自己是人们最喜欢做的事情。如果对话中有关于谈话者自己的部分，那么他们就会发现对话是多么地难忘与积极。

3. They pay attention. Listen more to other people than you speak, and people will feel valued. Even if you're asking questions, people won't warm up to that if it seems you're not listening to what they're saying.

3. 他们会给予关注。多倾听，少倾诉，人们就会感觉受到重视。即使你问了问题，如果你看上去并没有在倾听的话，那么人们也不会表现出太大兴致。

4. They remember names. Names are such a core part of people's identity. Bringing their names up in the conversation will not only make them feel good, but they'll also appreciate the fact that you remember their names.

4. 他们会记住别人的名字。名字是一个人身份里面的一个核心部分。在谈话中提到他们的名字，不但会令他们感觉良好，也会让他们感激你记住了他们的名字。

5. They repeat and reinforce. Repeating what someone said to you and reinforcing it will help people feel validated. And that's all people want — validation.

5. 他们重复和确认。重复和确认别人对你说过的话会让人们感觉到被承认。而这就是人们所想要得到的。

6. They don't give unsolicited advice. Give advice to people when they ask you for it. If you go around telling people your opinion, you can come across as being overbearing and bossy even if you're just trying to help.

6. 他们不会给不请自来的建议。只在被问及时才提供建议。如果你到处去告诉别人你的意见的话，别人很有可能觉得你很霸道和野蛮，尽管你的初衷只是想帮助他们。