让你的第一次约会圆满成功

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Follow this advice to make the most of your first date and increase your chances of a second.
记住下面的几条建议，让你们的第一次约会顺利进行，并提高再次约会的可能性。

You Will Need

Permission
Destination
Sincerity
Questions
Principles
Respect
你需要

允许
目的地
真诚
问题
原则
尊重

Step 1: Ask permission
Before you leave, ask your parents’ permission. Tell them where you are going and agree on a curfew.

Don’t be late. If you want to go out on a second date you will need your parents’ approval.
第一步 得到父母的允许
在约会之前，先得到父母的允许，告诉他们你们准备去哪，并同意宵禁。
不要回来的太晚，因为下一次约会你还需要父母的同意。

Step 2: Plan ahead
Choose a location that allows you and your date to engage in conversation but also has an enjoyable atmosphere. If conversation is slow, events will spark discussion.
第二步 提前计划
找一个方便说话，且气氛很好的地方约会。如果不知道说什么，当时的场景会给你灵感的。

Step 3: Be yourself
Be yourself – do not act, fake, or pretend to be someone you are not. Expressing sincerity and honesty is your best bet.

Don’t gossip about other people. Keep a positive attitude with the focus on you and your date.
第三步 做最真实的自己
做自己——不要做作，伪装或者试图去扮成另外的人。表达自己的真诚是你最好的选择。不要议论别人，正确对待你和你的约会。

Step 4: Ask questions about your date
Ask your date questions to learn more about them and discover common interests. Listen to them attentively.

If you find that you are doing all of the listening don’t hesitate to politely interrupt with information about yourself.
第四步 问对方问题
问对方问题，以获得更多的了解，并找出大家的共同爱好。仔细聆听对方的说话。如果你发现自己一直在听，那么不要犹豫，礼貌地打断对方，说一些自己的事。

Step 5: Do not abandon your principles
Do not abandon your principles when it comes to kissing or sexual activity. Decide what feels right for you and set limits for yourself.
第五步 不要放弃自己的原则
如果涉及到接吻和身体接触的时候，不要放弃自己的原则。按照自己的想法走。

Step 6: Treat your date with respect
Do not pressure your date to engage in activities that they are not comfortable with. Treat them with respect and you are more likely to get a second date.

Two percent of respondents to a New York survey said the best way to ask someone to go on a first date is by text message.
第六步 尊重自己的约会对象
不要逼着对方去做一些他不想做的事，尊重对方，这样你更有可能获得第二次约会的机会。纽约一项调查研究发现，第一次约会的最佳方法是通过手机短信。