学着控制你的脾气 Learn to Control Your Temper

When one is angry, it is so natural for them to lose control of their temper, so they will yell at others or say bad words. The moment they get angry, they will hurt others without consciousness, all they want to do is to let out their emotion and feel better. But the problem is people don’t realize what they bring to their friends and families when they are angry, those people they love have to bear their bad temper, and they get hurt from the bad words. The words we say when we are in bad emotion is usually like a knife, stabbing into people’s heart. We need to learn to control our temper when we are in bad emotions, the wrong thing is that we show our bad temper to our beloved people while keeping a kind attitude toward strangers. We need to be nice to our families and friends, and never let them get hurt by our bad temper.

当一个人生气的时候，很自然的，他们会难以控制自己的脾气，因此他们会朝别人大叫或者说些不好听的话。当他们生气的时候，他们会无意识伤害到别人，他们所做的一切就是释放他们的情绪，以此来感觉好些。但是问题在于人们没有意识到他们生气时候给朋友和家人带来的伤害，这些他们爱的人不得不忍受他们的坏脾气，并从不好听的言语中受到伤害。我们处于心情不好的时候所讲的话经常就像一把刀，刺进人们的心房。当我们心情不好的时候，我们需要学着去控制自己的脾气，我们错就错在把自己不好的一面展示给了我们爱的人，却把自己有好的一面留给了陌生人。我们需要对家人和朋友友好些，永远不要让他们从我们的坏脾气中受伤。