How to Succeed and Never Fail
2008-03-30来源:
So, how can you succeed online without ever experiencing the feeling of failure?Is that possible?Let's find out...What are you currently working on? What are you trying to accomplish with your online Business right now? Do you have a goal that you're trying to accomplish?Let's look at the two possibilities.When you accomplish your goal, what has really happened?You've set your goal and you've successfully accomplished it. You feel good about yourself. Your self-esteem is higher. You're off to the next project.The formula looks like this:Set goal + Accomplishment = SuccessBut!When you fail to accomplish your goal, what has really happened?You've set your goal, but you've failed to accomplish it. You don't feel good about yourself. You start to have negative thoughts about yourself. Your self-esteem is lower.The formula looks like this:Set goal - Accomplishment = FailureHow can we fix this so you never experience the feeling of failure?Let's explore the possibilities.Even though you didn't accomplish your goal, did you learn anything from it? What do you think was the biggest reason why you didn't accomplish it? What was the problem that stopped you?Whatever it was, it was something that you would have not learned otherwise. Don't you agree?Hence, the formula now becomes:Set goal - Accomplishment = Failure + Lesson LearnedNow that you've discovered the reason that caused you to fail, dig up some resources and gather some intelligence that would help you find the solution or solutions for the problem that stopped you from accomplishing your goal.Armed with this solution or solutions for the problem, you now enjoy a double chance of accomplishing your goal.Go at it again and DO NOT REPEAT the same mistake.Let's just say that you have failed to accomplish your goal again.What do you think was the biggest reason why you didn't accomplish it again? What did you learn from this second failure? Was it another problem that stopped you?Whatever it was, it was something that you would have not learned otherwise.The formula now looks like this:Set goal - Accomplishment = Failure + 2 Lessons LearnedAgain, look for more resources and gather more intelligence that would help you find the solution or solutions for this new problem that stopped you from accomplishing your goal. And then go at it again but DO NOT REPEAT the previous two mistakes.Let's just say that you have failed for the 3rd time.The formula looks like this:Set goal - Accomplishment = Failure + 3 Lessons LearnedNow, the number of lessons learned doesn't really matter. Does it?As long as you're not repeating the same mistakes over and over, you're always gaining a different experience. So let's eliminate the number from the formula. The expression "Lessons Learned" is already in plural form so the number in front of it is not really needed.So the formula now looks like this:Set goal - Accomplishment = Failure + Lessons LearnedOK!Now.Are you seeing what I'm seeing? Have you really failed?You haven't accomplished your goal yet but you've accomplished something else tha
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