不拍马屁 如何取悦自己的上司?

　　Maintaining a positive attitude will help boost the moral of your boss and coworkers. Talk about the things that are going well on a project and be optimistic about overcoming the problems you face. No one enjoys someone who worries and complains about everything.

　　5. 保持积极态度。

　　保持积极态度能够激励你的上司和同事们的士气。谈谈一个项目中进展顺利的部分，并对克服你所面临的难题持乐观看法。没有人会喜欢总是忧心忡忡并抱怨每件事的人。

　　6. Don’t be a yes man.

　　Being a yes man will make your coworkers and boss despise you.A yes man often comes off as insincere and sleazy. Also a boss will never treat a yes man as an equal, which greatly limits future advancement. Being a yes man is bad, but that doesn’t mean you should constantly disagree with your boss. Be professional and have the confidence and smarts to agree and disagree with your boss when the time is right.　

　　6. 不要唯唯诺诺。

　　对每件事都一味附和会让你的同事们和上司瞧不起你。那样的人通常代表着不诚恳与不体面。同样的，上司绝不会像信任其他人一样信任这种人，这会极大限制你将来的发展。做一个唯唯诺诺的人非常不好，但这不意味着你应时常与你的上司唱反调。如果时机合适，用专业的态度、自信并机敏地赞同或反对上司的意见。