调查:女人对爱情有更多遗憾

　　Prof Roese said many of those who took part in the survey were eager to do so, and some even became tearful as they spoke.

　　勒泽教授说，许多参与调查的人都很投入，有些人在交谈时甚至留下了眼泪。

　　But saying ‘I wish I would have’ isn’t all bad.

　　不过，觉得“如果当初那么做就好了”并不全是坏事。

　　‘Regret is something that can push people into better success in the future,’ Prof Roese explained.

　　勒泽教授解释道：“悔恨会激励人们在未来取得更大的成功。”

　　‘It’s a motivator. It’s a benefit if you take a lesson and move on quickly. It’s a problem if you keep [re-living] that same regret over and over again.’

　　“懊悔是一种动力。如果你吸取了教训，很快又继续前进，这就是一件好事。如果你总是重蹈覆辙，然后又反复地为之懊悔，那这就是个问题了。”