老爸教给我的18个人生信条(上)

9.Not much is worth fighting about. – If you can avoid it, don’t fight.  Step back from arguments with your spouse, family members or neighbors.  When you feel anger surging up and you want to yell that vulgar remark on tip of your tongue, just close your mouth and walk away.  Let yourself calm down.  You don’t have to be right or win an argument.  It just doesn’t matter.
很多事情并不值得争吵。如果可以，就尽量避免争吵，特别是与配偶、家人以及邻居的吵闹。当你感到怒不可遏，并且粗话张口即出的时候，请不要说话并且走开让自己冷静下来。没有必要一定证明自己是对的或者去赢得一场争吵，其实这些并不重要。