会毁掉你的谈话的坏习惯

2. Are You an Energy Vampire?
      You may have fascinating stories and opinions to share, but if your energy cannot support the comments, people may find you hard to listen to.  Lacking energy or emotion when you talk can ruin your conversation faster than almost any other bad habit.   Good conversation is alive; good conversation flows with energy between the conversationalists.   If you are not adding to the flow of energy, then you are probably subtracting from it.

Suggestions: Think of your voice as a roller coaster ride for your listeners.  Are you creating a flat, boring ride?  Try to make your roller coaster ride enjoyable for your particular audience; add some vocal drops, some inclines, and vary your speed.  Vary your inflections and emphasize key words as well.

      Also, record your voice in private.  In fact, re-read this section in your normal voice and play it back.  If you have never recorded yourself before, you'll be surprised by what you hear!

你是一只活力吸血鬼吗？

      你也许热衷于分享故事和观点，但是，如果你没有支撑整个谈话的活力，人们会觉得很难再听你讲下去。谈话时缺少活力和感情会比其它坏习惯更快的毁了你们的谈话。好的交流是生动的；谈话者之间充满了活力。如果你不能不断加强这些活力，那么活力很可以会慢慢流失。

建议：把你的声音想象成是在让你的听众乘坐一趟过山车。你是否正在形成一次单调，无聊的旅程？试着为你这些特别的观众创造一次愉快的过山车旅程；增加一些语调的升降，变化语速。也可以改变声调强调关键词。

      同时，私下里录下自己的声音。用你正常的声音再读一次这部分然后重播。如果你以前从没有录过自己的声音，所听到的将会让你大吃一惊！