会毁掉你的谈话的坏习惯

      The Predictable Talker lives in the serious and literal world.  If they get up to use the restroom, and you ask them where they are going, they will always respond, "to the restroom."  Everything they say is predictable; they'll never surprise you with something unexpected.  In contrast, a Playful Talker may respond to that question with a number of unpredictable playful responses.  For example, "I thought I'd leave you with the bill," or "I'm going to pickup that girl,
"or "I'm trying to escape."  The best conversation is playful and unpredictable; Predictable Talkers have trouble playing!

Suggestion: Train your mind to start considering the unexpected responses.  Next time someone asks you a question or makes a comment, mentally think about what response would be unexpected or unpredictable (within reason!).  Once in a while, try one of these unexpected comments and see how you do.  You may surprise yourself.

你是一个没有想象力的谈话者吗？

      没有想象力的谈话者生活在一个严肃乏味的世界时。如果他们要去餐馆的时候，你问他们要去哪儿，他们都会回答“去餐馆”。他们说的所有事情都是可以想得到的；他们决不会说出一些预料以外的话使你惊讶。相反的，一个有幽默感的人会用一连串想不到的有意思的话来回答问题。例如，“我想我就要和钱离开你了......”或是“我要去认识那个女孩。”，或是“我正要逃跑。”最好的谈话就是要有趣而且让人想不到；没有想象力的谈话者将会碰到麻烦！

 建议：训练你的思维，从考虑让人想不到的回答开始。下次如果有人问你问题或是讨论的时候，在心里想想什么样的回答是让人没想到的或是猜不着的（当然是合理的！）。偶乐试试说些让人意想不到的话，看看自己表现如果。你会让自己吃惊的。