纽约失恋男遍留电话求安慰 7万人回应重拾信心

Jeff, 40, said he is still in touch almost daily with about 20 people he 'clicked with'.
现年40岁的的Jeff目前每天仍保持与“随机点中”的20位进行联系。

Many people called him just to say he wasn't alone, others gave him advice, others vented at him, other counseled, he counseled others.
许多人打电话告诉他，他并非孤身一人。有些人给他建议，有些人则向他发泄心中所想，有人给他出谋划策，而他也给对方出谋划策。

So touched was he by the experience he decided to write a book about it. He revealed his favorite calls are when 'a person is completely candid and we help each other out by venting and listening'.
心有所感的他决定写下这段经历的点点滴滴。他谈到了他最在意的一个电话，对方毫无保留，畅谈心事，他们互相倾诉聆听，帮助对方也帮助了自己。

'One of my favorites was a call by this disabled mother in the U.S,' he said.
“有一个电话我记忆犹新，那是来自美国的残疾母亲。”他这么说。

'In 45 minutes she passed on a lifetime of wisdom. She taught me that I’m never going to be happy until I love myself. ’
“短短的45分钟，她畅谈了人生感悟，带给我的是生命的智慧。她教会了我只有爱自己才能感到幸福。”

'I have not liked myself in the past. For me this was revolutionary, trying to start to like myself. Happiness, she said, must to come from inside.’
“以前我从不爱惜自己。因此，她的话让我的思想发生了翻天覆地的改变。试着去爱自己，她对我说那就是来自我们内心深处的幸福。”