破解魅力密码：那些魅力超凡的人都有哪些习惯

Be humble. Share your screwups. Admit your mistakes. Be the cautionary tale. And laugh at yourself.
表现得谦逊一些，与人分享你的糗事，承认你犯下的错误。充当反面教材，并且自嘲。

While you should never laugh at other people, you should always laugh at yourself.
虽然你永远都不该嘲笑别人，你却总是应该自嘲。

People won't laugh at you. People will laugh laugh with you.
人们不会嘲笑你的。人们只会和你一起欢笑。

They'll like you better for it--and they'll want to be around you a lot more.
他们会因此更喜欢你——而且他们会更乐意和你在一起。