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The words you use impact the attitude of others.
你讲话的用词会影响别人的看法。

For example, you don't have to go to a meeting; you get to go meet with other people. You don't have to create a presentation for a new client; you get to share cool stuff with other people. You don't have to go to the gym; you get to work out and improve your health and fitness.
举例来说，你不应说你“要去开会”，而要说你“要去和别人会面”；你不应说你“要为新客户制作演示”，而要说你“想和其他人分享一些很酷的东西”；你不应说你“要去健身房”，而要说你“想出去锻炼锻炼，改善你的健康”。

You don't have to interview job candidates; you get to select a great person to join your team.
你不应说你要“面试一些求职者”，而要说你“要选择一位了不起的人加入你的团队”。

We all want to associate with happy, enthusiastic, fulfilled people. The words you choose can help other people feel better about themselves--and make you feel better about yourself, too.
我们都希望和那些快乐、有热情、充实的人打交道。你的用词会让其他人自我感觉更好——并且也让你自己的自我感觉更好。