破解魅力密码：那些魅力超凡的人都有哪些习惯

No one receives enough praise. No one. Tell people what they did well.
没人受够了表扬。没有人。告诉别人他们干得很棒吧。

Wait, you say you don't know what they did well?
等等，你说你不知道他们哪儿干得棒了？

Shame on you--it's your job to know. It's your job to find out ahead of time.
你太丢脸啦——你的任务就是去了解。你的任务就是提前去找出那些事儿来。

Not only will people appreciate your praise, they'll appreciate the fact you care enough to pay attention to what they're doing.
人们不但会感激你的赞扬，更会因你关注他们所做的事儿而心怀感激。

Then they'll feel a little more accomplished and a lot more important.
然后他们就会感到一点小小的成就感，还会大大地感到自己更重要了。