破解魅力密码：那些魅力超凡的人都有哪些习惯

Granted, we all like hearing a little gossip. We all like hearing a little dirt.
是的，我们都喜欢听一点小道消息。我们都喜欢听一些流言蜚语。

The problem is, we don't necessarily like--and we definitely don't respect--the people who dish that dirt.
问题是，我们不一定喜欢——而且绝对不会尊敬——那些散布流言蜚语的人。

Don't laugh at other people. When you do, the people around you wonder if you sometimes laugh at them.
不要嘲笑别人。当你这么做的时候，你身边的人会想，你是不是有时也会嘲笑他们。