对号入座：有这样的女朋友你就偷着乐吧！

If you’re dating a girl, check off these 15 signs that you have a great girlfriend. If you find a girl who fits this description, hold onto her!
如果你在热恋中，那就细细品读一下下面的条目。如果你的女朋友正如下所述，那可一定要抓牢啊！

1. She likes the same things.
她与你嗜好相同。

You both like going to the movies, swimming, and you have pretty similar views on which people should be locked up. Not that you agree on everything, of course, but at least you are on the same track 90% of the time.
看电影、游泳是你们共同的爱好，而且哪些人交往、哪些人不交往这种问题你们都有着相当类似的观点。当然，不是说你们在所有的事情上都能达到一致，但至少在大部分时间你们有着相同的思维方式。

2. She never interferes with your work.
她从不干涉你的工作。

Yoko Ono (John Lennon’s second wife) once remarked in an interview, “In a way both John and I ruined our careers by getting together.” However, the break up of The Beatles was a complex and long drawn out affair.
小洋野子（约翰·列侬的第二任妻子）曾在一次采访中说：“约翰和我的婚姻，某种程度上毁了我们的事业。”不过，披头士的散伙也不是一两句话能说清的事情。

3. She tells you why she is in a bad mood.
她会告诉你她为什么心情不好。

Nobody can be a in a good mood all the time. She tells you why something is wrong, what happened at work to make her mad and why she is in a foul temper. Some people call that real communication.
人人都有情绪低落的时候。她会告诉你事情为什么会这样，工作中发生了什么让她抓狂的事情，她为什么脾气暴躁。有些人把这种谈话称为真正的交流。

4. She loves you for who you are, not for what you do.
她爱你，不是因为你做了什么，而是真正的你。

Lots of famous people attract others because of their stardom. Tim Tebow makes it very clear that he wants a kind and sweet girl who is not dazzled by his fame.
很多名人因为他们的明星身份而受到追捧。提姆·提博明确地说，他想要的是一个不醉心于他声名的善良而可爱的女孩。

5. She is not trying to change you.
她不试图改变你。

You know the types who want to mold you into Mr. Perfect. There may be a few things that need fixing, but a great girlfriend adjusts to imperfections and can accept the fact that your hair style is a little bit different or that your weight is over or under a certain limit.
你知道有种女孩希望把你塑造成完美先生。你身上或许有些缺点需要改正，但是真正适合你的女友应去适应你的不完美，并接受你发型有点怪异或体型不完美的事实。

6. She has no problems with her own body image.
她对自己的形象充满自信。

She is not trying to change her body all the time. She is not obsessed with dieting or going to the gym. She is perfectly at ease with herself.
她不总是试图改变自己的形象。她不每天闹着要节食，也不健身成癖。她不苛求自己。

7. She is not the owner of your free time.
她不会没完没了地缠着你。

Basically, she does not complain that you have sixty dozen things on your to do list. She allows you time for yourself without being clingy or complaining.
一般情况下，她不会因你有很多事要做没有时间陪她而抱怨。她给你支配空闲时间的自由，不缠人，不发牢骚。