以小见大 10个迹象告诉你他是不是完美男友？

1. He appreciates who you are.
他喜欢你——如你所是的样子。

You are unique and wonderful in your own way. Whether you wake up the neighborhood with your bathroom singing or like solving Sudoku puzzles in the middle of the night, he accepts you exactly the way you are. He doesn’t want to change anything about you.
你是独一无二的，有着你独有的魅力。不管你有何种怪癖，比如喜欢在早晨冲凉时大声唱歌、吵醒邻居，或者喜欢大半夜的玩数独游戏，他都接受你本来的样子。他不想改变你。

2. He keeps his promises.
他信守承诺。

It can be extremely annoying when a guy insists that he will do something, but never gets around to do it. A true gentleman doesn’t backtrack on his words, but walks the talk. You rest assured that he only makes commitments that he intends to keep.
如果一个人信誓旦旦的承诺要做某事，却始终没有去做，这的确非常令人恼火。一个真正的绅士是不会食言的，而是言出必行。对一个完美男友，你完全可以相信，他一旦做出承诺，就一定会信守诺言。

3. He stands by you.
他支持你。

He may not agree with your every decision, but supports the choices you make. He is there for you in success and in failure, in health and in sickness, in laughter and in tears.
也许他并不赞同你的某些主张，但是他会支持你做出自己的决定。无论你成功或失败，健康或疾病，欢笑或哭泣，他都会陪着你。

4. He gives you space.
他留给你个人空间。

Psychologists say that having privacy in a relationship is very important. The perfect boyfriend allows you enough me-time, and doesn’t try to sneak a peek into your personal diary. He doesn’t want you to lose the “I” in the “We.”
心理学家指出，恋人之间保持私人空间是非常重要的。完美男友会留给你充足的“自我时间”，而且不会想偷瞄一眼你的日记。他不会要求你只有“我们”而舍弃“自我”。

5. He is not jealous or insecure.
他不善妒，不缺乏安全感。

Did she just check him out? Who is that guy who texted her in the middle of the night? What is she doing on a Saturday night without me? Nope, this man doesn’t waste time on such silly questions. He trusts you and is certain that you trust him.
“她是不是刚看了那个男的一眼？”“那是哪个男的大半夜的给她发短信？”“周六晚上，我不在身边，她在干嘛呢？”——不，一个完美男友不会浪费时间瞎想这些问题。他信任你，而且也深知你信任他。