看看你是不是女生最讨厌的男士

If you listen in to a group of single women talking, you might realize that they mostly talk about the men in they meet. What's more, you might realize that they can speak volumes about the things that men do that annoy the heck out of them. These discussions often turn into fullno-holds-barred rant sessions that make you feel glad you don't know these women.
要是你听到一群女人聊天，你可能会发觉她们谈论的大多是所遇到的男人们。此外，或许你还会发现她们能头头是道地说出她们最烦男人的各种事情。这些谈论经常变成完全无拘无束的山聊海侃，以至于你暗自庆幸多亏自己不认识这些娘儿们。 让你少奋斗八年的工作经验

But these discussions prove that there are a ton of things about single men that women hate with a passion. Here's some of them. Take alook and see if you're doing something wrong!
但这些谈论证明了一点：单身男人有许多地方太不招女人们待见了。这里列举了一些，请瞄上两眼，看看你是不是有哪些地方做得不对！

1. Sacrificing your status to make her happy
为讨红颜欢心，宁愿牺牲自己的地位

Some men think that if they do everything women want, women would like them more. Big mistake - women hate this kind of behavior. They don't want men who are weak, tentative, and doesn't seem to have hisact straight.
有些男人以为只要对女人有求必应，那么女人就会深爱他们。这是个严重的错误——女人讨厌这种行为。她们不喜欢软弱、优柔寡断以及不太直来直去的男人。

2. Being Clingy And Insecure
粘乎乎，不自信

By "clingy," I don't mean physically touchy-feely - although women can be turned off by such behavior. But being psychologically clingy is even worse. You're psychologically clingy when you never leave her side when you're walking around the department store, or when you keep asking if she likes you or if you're her type. This kind of insecurity make women think you're a pest.
这里的“粘乎乎”并非指身体上的过于卿卿我我——尽管这种行为也有可能不招女人待见。而心理上的粘乎乎则更糟糕。心理上的粘乎乎表现在：当你们逛百货商场时，你寸步不离她左右；或者，你老是问她是否爱你，或问你是不是她想要的那种类型。这种不自信使得女人觉得你很招人烦。