老爸教给我的18个人生信条(下)

14.Less advice is often the best advice. – People don’t need lots of advice, they need to live.  I’ve seen young, rocky relationships develop into wonderful marriages and fleeting inspirations ignite a lifetime of passion and happiness.  Our life stories, like the answers we give to long essay questions, are uniquely ours.  What people want to know is already somewhere inside of them.  We all just need time to think, be and breathe, and continue to explore the undirected journeys that will eventually help us find our direction.
最好的建议是越少越好。人们并不需要过多的建议，他们需要的是亲身经历。我曾见识过一段并不成熟且又不够稳定的恋爱关系走入婚姻，并将转瞬即逝的激情化作陪伴永生的幸福和信念。我们的人生故事，就像是一场仅属于我们自己的漫长的论文答辩。人们想要知道的也早已存在于我们的内心，我们所需要的就是去想、去做和呼吸，继续在这个没有方向的旅途中找到自己的方向。

15.Manage your time. – Your situation and environment is ever changing, so be careful not to confuse things that are urgent with things that are important.
管理你的时间。你的情况和环境一直在变，所以你要留意，不要将那些急迫的事情就视为是重要的。