男闺蜜当道：为什么你们只是朋友？

3. You Haven't Asked For A Date
你从来没有开过口

By not asking for a date you are implicitly saying, "I don't want to audition -- don't consider me for the role." Unless you are irresistible, most women will be perfectly OK to have a male friend like that in perpetuity while they continue to search for the right partner.
从不开口表示想和她约会的心情，就像是在暗示她：“我不想试镜，别考虑我来演这个角色。” 除非你真是魅力强大无可抵挡，否则大部分的女性对身边有这样一个永远的男性朋友都会表示完全能接受，而她们还能继续找寻自己对的那个人。

So, ask them for a date and/or make it clear that you want to be more than a friend. The worst that will happen is they will say no, and you will have saved yourself a lot of time you would have spent wondering whether this friendship will turn into a romantic relationship.
所以啊，要开口说我想跟你约会，或者表露心迹：我不只是想跟你做朋友。最坏的结果也只是她拒绝了你，这样你可就省了花时间心思来琢磨你们的友情能不能发展成爱情了。