男闺蜜当道：为什么你们只是朋友？

Why You're Just Friends
为什么我跟她只是朋友？

We've all been there -- crushing on that girl we're hanging out with, thinking this might actually go somewhere. And the more time we're spending together, the more we realize how much we actually like her: how she talks, how she laughs, that she can chill with us like one of the guys.
我们都有过这样的经历：对经常跟我们混在一起的那个女生有了感觉，觉得大家的关系可能会有所发展。跟她在一起的时间越久，我们就越发意识到有多喜欢她：她说话的样子，她笑起来的样子，她会像兄弟一般陪伴在我们身边。

And then there's that moment, when we realize that we haven't really made a move yet. Were we waiting for her to go for it? Were we not sure she'd be into it? All of the sudden, she's talking about another dude, she's bringing you into the bathroom with her while we're talking on the phone and calling us for advice.
也就是在那一刻，我们意识到，我们的关系其实并没有更进一步。在等她挑明？不确定她是不是懂你的心？然后突然有一天，她嘴里眼里心心念念的是另外一个人，打电话给你寻求恋爱意见，实实在在的从头到脚给你泼了一瓢冷水。