男闺蜜当道：为什么你们只是朋友？

8. She Feels Rejected
她觉得被拒之门外

When you purposely go into the "friend zone" a girl might immediately put you into the friend-only category because, although she might have initially felt some sort of attraction to you, she now feels that you do not share those feelings and it's hard to switch back after a deep friendship has been formed. It’s hard to change our minds back unless something happens to change our perspective.
如果你有意想进入她的“朋友专区”，那她可能会立马把你划到“只能做朋友”的类别中。虽然她可能在刚开始对你有吸引的感觉，但是一旦她感觉到你并没有分享同样的感受，而你们之间已经建立了深厚的友情，那她的感觉就很难拨乱反正了。除非有什么事情发生让我们改变看问题的视角，否则我们的思维是就很难再变回去了。