男闺蜜当道：为什么你们只是朋友？

6. You're Not Being Decisive
你太过犹豫不决

Women are into decisive men who know what they want. Women want to feel wanted and swept off their feet. The whole "friendship" gimmick is not attractive to women. If that's your approach to a woman you're interested in, you're showing that you're indecisive, scared and don't know what you're looking for. They want you to see their potential right away and then pursue them.
女人喜欢决绝果断，明确知道自己想要什么的男人。这样女人才会有一种被需要的感觉，会让她们神魂颠倒。“友情”这种骗人的把戏对女人没有吸引力。如果培养友情是你接近感兴趣的姑娘的方式，那么你就是在表现自己不够果断、战战兢兢和无所适从的一面。女人想要你马上看到她的潜力，然后展开攻势。