来自棒球比赛的收获

This I Believe.

October is here, and baseball's postseason begins next week. In a about a month, we'll have a new world champion. And die-hard fans across the country will watch every game between now and then even if their team didn't make it to the post season. At least, that's the point of view of Hillary Kambour, who lives in Florida and roots for Marlins. That club has won two world's series titles, but didn't make it into the play outs this year. Even still, Kambour plans to tune in for the crack of the back and the world crowd.

I believe in baseball. I believe in the strength it takes to hit a 90-mile-an-hour fastball, or throw a runner out at the plate from right field. I believe in the agility and grace of fielding a line drive, pivoting on one foot, and rocketing the ball across the field for the out at first. I believe in the patience one needs not to swing at a 3-0 pitch, even when it looks like it’s going right over the plate. I believe in the stamina players need to play 162 games before they rest.

I believe it takes a special kind of self-esteem, or gumption, or panache, to remain focused on getting a hit or making a play even when you are down by seven runs in the fourth. Just the ability to stay on the field and not dissolve into tears is impressive.

I believe in the loyalty demonstrated when you cheer your pitcher for holding the runner on first and boo the opposition for doing the same thing; the camaraderie engendered when you and the stranger sitting next to you chant harmoniously, “Let’s go Marlins, let’s go,” as if you were long-time singing partners; and I believe in indulging in the delicious (but harmless) hatred of your rival team, knowing that your venom doesn’t really hurt anyone.

I’m a relatively late blooming baseball fan, discovering its real joys when my baby Marlins won the World Series in ’97. But I date my baseball watching Zen to my childhood. On long car rides with my dad, we often listened to Giants baseball. When his team fell behind or made frustrating errors, my dad would curse his beloved Giants and angrily turn the radio off, unable to listen to another minute.

After ten minutes or so, he’d announce that he just wanted to see how the game was going and casually (as if he didn’t really care), turn the game back on, hoping for a dramatic change. He couldn’t not know the outcome.

Although I recently lost my dad, his style lives on and I’m often seen pacing or even leaving the family room unable to watch, only to return a few moments later with the hope of baseball redemption. I share this baseball love now with my son and, together with two of his buddies, we’re in our third year of a fantasy baseball league entitled “Three Dudes and a Mom.”

I have discovered that a whole world of emotions and skills are involved in the game, both mine and the players. Of course, I feel and admire these emotions and skills more acutely with respect to my own team and its rivals, but I am finding that as I mature as a fan, my admiration and passion extends beyond my team to encompass the entire sport.

I recognize that baseball is not without its warts: overpaid prima donnas, illegal drugs, and unsportsmanlike conduct, plague America’s pastime—I’m not naive.

But in so many areas of my life, I have to temper my rages and suppress the urge to gloat. In baseball I can fully indulge in the tension and anxiety of watching our closer walk a guy in the ninth with two outs. In baseball, I can wallow in the instant replay beauty of a home run hitter connecting with the ball and watching it sail away. In baseball, I am free to dive into the pool of joy at my opponents’ misfortune and do as many laps as I please. Where else in my life am I completely free to experience the depth of all of these feelings, without guilt or judgment—all in a three-hour game?

Hillary Kambour is a baseball fan living in Florida. Her essay was produced by D.G. & J.G. Next week, we will hear from a woman who fled Sarajevo, when it was under siege by Serbian forces. If you’d like to write an essay about the core belief that guides your life, and submit it to our series, go to the website thisibelieve.org.