谁动了我的情人节卡片?

It's Valentine's Day and you've received a card, but who's it from? Videojug shows you how to find out who sent you that secret Valentine's card with this easy step by step guide.

情人节甜蜜到站，是不是收到一张没有留名的情人卡呢？想知道它从哪儿飞来的吧。和小编一起来一步步查出来吧！

Step 1: You will need
第一步：你需要

· The card 卡片
· The envelope it came in 卡片信封
· Some brain power 记忆力

Step 2: The delivery
第二步：回忆寄卡过程

How did you receive the Valentine's card? If it was hand delivered to your home, consider who you know who lives locally. If the Valentine's card was sent by mail to your house list who has access to your home address?

情人卡是怎样到来的呢？如果是寄卡人亲自送来，嫌疑人就是住在当地的了；如果是通过邮局寄到，就得想想有哪些人知道家里的地址呢？

Have a look at the post mark on the front of the envelope, this may give you a clue to the area your admirer is from.

仔细看看信封上的邮戳，这可能会给你一些线索。

If the Valentine's card was left for you to find at work, it almost definitely would be from one of your colleagues. And chances are they would be keeping their eye on you to make sure you received it. This will narrow the field considerably.

如果请人卡是在公司出现的，很有可能就是你的同事了。而且他很有可能是远远看着你收到卡片才放心的。这样就更容易想到是谁了。

Step 3: Assess the card
第三步：评估情人卡

What type of Valentine's card is it? Romantic, humorous, cute, tacky, minimal or elaborate. Your admirer would have unwittingly selected a card that reflects their personality. For example, the hot photographer from the cafe would have very different tastes to your pub mate Stuart. From you list of suspects, who suits the card?

这张卡片是哪种类型的呢？浪漫？幽默？可爱？俗气？迷你？或者是经过特别精心设计的。你的倾慕者选择卡片的时候可能已经无意中透露出他的性格：咖啡屋里那个超级受欢迎的摄影师可和酒吧里的小混混品味大不同哦。列下嫌疑人名单，谁最有可能呢？

Step 4: Analyse the message
第四步：分析卡片中的留言

What exactly have they written. Your admirer will want to find out who they are, so will have hopefully left a clue. Think back to conversations you have had, does anything click?

他写了些什么？你的倾慕者很可能希望你找到他，因此他很有可能在这里留下了线索。想想平时的谈话，有没有哪句话在这里重现呢？

Is the handwriting familiar to you? Don't put too much thought into this one as they may well have tried to disguised it.

这里的笔迹熟悉吗？虽然很有可能这里的笔迹是已经经过处理了。

Step 5: Probe the suspects
第五步：调查嫌疑人

By now you must have reduced your list down to a few key players. Find a time when you are alone with each of them and casually bring up the subject of Valentine's Day. Mention you received an anonymous card and watch their reaction. If they look non pulsed, chances are that it wasn't from them. If they blush, or show a lot of interest -you're on the right track.

到这一步，剩下的嫌疑人不多了吧。找一个和他们单独在一起的时间，随意的提起情人节话题，同时说道这张匿名卡片，观察他们的反映。如果他看起来非常平静，很可能就不是他了；如果他脸红或者非常感兴趣，很可能就是他咯。

Next, ask if they sent any cards. If they say 'No,' drop the subject and move on. If they did, ask to who. This is perfect because if it was to someone else you can feign interest as they tell you all about her with out losing face, but if it was to you, they must come clean.

接着，问他们是否寄过卡片。如果答案是没有，追踪到此为止；如果有，问寄给谁了。这一招非常不错，因为如果是寄给别人，你可以边听边表现出感兴趣，同时不用担心因为不是你而丢面子；如果是你，就是你，他们肯定就得和盘托出了。

It's now down to you to decide whether you want to take things further with your secret admirer or not. We'll leave you to it.

于是现在就由你来决定，是和他进一步发展呢还是就此止住。你来告诉他吧。