如何让自己男生有吸引力?

男人欣赏充满自信的女人，因为她让男人觉得她能对自己的行为负责，令男人很有安全感，可以放心与她交往下去。  

　　自信并不代表强悍。自信的女人不光待人接物表现得大大方方，态度率直，有主见不拖泥带水，而且也会恰到好处得在男人面前示弱，自然随意地表现女人的温顺柔弱。这可以让男人痛惜，更乐于接近。  

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Forget what your mom told you about being yourself—there are definite things you can do to tip the odds in your favor!

You Will Need
Eye makeup
An inquisitive mind
And a willingness to laugh at his jokes
Hair volumizer
Lip plumpers

Step 1: Don't starve yourself
Don’t starve yourself. study after study proves that men prefer curvy over skinny.

Step 2: Grow out hair
If your hair is short, grow it out. Surveys say that men love long, full, wavy manes.

Use volumizer to boost your hair, and lip plumpers to pump up your pout, since pillowy lips denote youth.

Step 3: Make eyes appear larger
Have a makeup expert show you how to make your eyes appear larger. Large peepers are universally appealing.

Step 4: Be choosy
Be choosy. People who are picky are actually more desirable to the opposite sex than those willing to give everyone a shot.

Step 5: Be informed & well read
Be informed and well read. A pretty face may get you that first date, but in fact men aren’t as shallow as we think—for the long haul, they want a woman they can talk to.

Step 6: Flatter him
Found a special guy? Use targeted flattery. Figure out how he likes to think of himself—does he fancy himself an intellectual? A jock? A good-time Charlie?—then reinforce that perception.

Step 7: Laugh at his jokes
Laugh at his jokes. While women want a man who can make them laugh, men want a woman who will appreciate their wit.

Step 8: Enjoy yourself
Enjoy being the belle of the ball!

Research shows that while being seriously unattractive makes it harder to find love, being attractive actually doesn’t give much of an advantage over being average.