情侣之间沟通常出现的7个问题

2. Expecting your partner to read your mind.

期望对方读懂你的想法

You don’t want to communicate too much, but you also don’t want to bite your tongue and expect your partner to know what you’re thinking. If you’re waiting for someone to read your mind, you’re never going to feel like an equal in the relationship. You need to say what you’re thinking and feeling, just make sure your partner understands that these are your emotions and opinions, not something you’re forcing on them.

你不愿意过多交流，但你也不要只字不提就指望对方懂你的想法。若你只等待别人来懂你，那你将永远感受不到恋爱时的平等。所以你需要将你所想、所感表达出来，让对方能够理解你的情感和观点，而不是强迫对方接受。