情侣之间沟通常出现的7个问题

3. Giving in without saying what you think.

什么都不说就放弃

Don’t roll over and give up everything you’re thinking just to resolve the problem at hand. Your partner can’t win every time, and you need to make sure you’re letting your feelings be known and getting what you need from the relationship, too. If you never say what you think because you’re trying to keep the peace, you’ll find that over time you’re actually holding a grudge and resenting your partner because you’re unhappy in the relationship.

在处理问题的时候，不要拖沓，也不要放弃表达想法。你的爱人不会每次都能猜透你，所以你需要确定对方知道你的感受，同时你也要从恋爱中得到你想要的。如果只为了和平就掩埋了你的想法，久而久之你就会觉得自己充满怨恨并厌恶对方，因为你在恋爱中不快乐。