高中英语人教版2000年高三下03

[07:10.26]"Eyes" mean that I should look at you
[07:14.34]while you are speaking as a sign of respect.
[07:16.70]“眼睛” 意思是当你和我说话时，我应该看着你的眼睛，这是一种尊重的标志。
[07:19.07]In other words Ishould not watch TV,
[07:21.25]换句话说，我不能看着电视，
[07:23.43]or look over your shoulder at other people
[07:27.48]while we are talking together.
[07:29.16]或者看着你的胳膊，在我们和其他人一起谈话的时候。
[07:30.85]"Undivided attention" is another sign of respect.
[07:33.37]全神贯注是另一种尊重的标志。
[07:35.89]You may have noticed that very few people
[07:40.25]listen with complete attention.
[07:42.17]你可能注意到有很少人全神贯注地在听。
[07:44.09]Most people half-listen,
[07:45.87]大多数人是半听，
[07:47.64]and if you ask them to repeat what you have just said,they cannot.
[07:50.52]如果你叫他们重复你所说的内容，他们是做不到的。
[07:53.39]They may appear to be listening,
[07:55.17]他们看起来像是在听，
[07:56.94]but in fact lots of things are running around inside their heads:
[07:59.53]但事实上有很多东西在他们的内心游荡：
[08:02.12]shopping lists,things to do,worries,problems and so on.
[08:05.54]购物单，要做的事，担忧，问题等等。
[08:08.96]What about "heart"?"Heart"is what makes you love other people.
[08:11.94]心是什么？心就是让你去爱别人。
[08:14.92]You can love your friend,
[08:16.44]你可以爱你的朋友，
[08:17.97]even though you don't agree with everything she or he says.
[08:20.35]即使你不同意她或他所说的每一件事。
[08:22.73]So when you listen to someone,
[08:26.38]you should listen with complete attention,
[08:28.30]所以当你在听别人说话时，你应该全心全意地去听，
[08:30.22]and with complete respect for the other person.
[08:32.35]完全尊重别人。
[08:34.48]Here are some more tips on becoming a good listener.
[08:37.81]这里有一些让人成为好听者的贴士。
[08:41.14]First,take turns to listen.
[08:43.27]首先，轮流听。
[08:45.40]Don't all try to speak at the same time when you are in a group.
[08:47.83]当你们是一组人时，不要在同一时间说话。
[08:50.26]Listen without interrupting,and stop others from interrupting.
[08:53.59]不要插嘴地听，阻止某人打断别人的话。
[08:56.92]Then it will be someone else's turn.
[08:58.80]那么就轮到下一位了。
[09:00.68]That way everyone gets the chance to speak
[09:02.86]每个人都有机会说话
[09:05.04]and to be listened to with respect.
[09:07.11]被别人带敬意地去听。
[09:09.17]Second,if your friends have problems,do not give advice.
[09:12.44]第二，如果你的朋友有问题，不要给建议。
[09:15.70]Ask questions instead,such as"What do you want?
[09:18.29]用问问世来代替，例如你想要什么？
[09:20.87]How do you feel about it?What are you afraid might happen?"
[09:23.70]你感觉它怎样？你在担心会发生什么事？
[09:26.52]They will be able to find answers to any problems themselves,
[09:31.69]with your support.
[09:33.17]那答案就自动出来了。
[09:34.64]They just need encouragement
[09:36.40]他们只需要鼓励
[09:38.17]and complete trust hat they are doing their best.
[09:40.49]和完全信任他们会尽最大的努力。
[09:42.82]Third,listen and be quiet while others are talking!
[09:45.65]第三，当别人在说话时，静静地聆听！
[09:48.49]Don't interrupt,saying,"Oh yes,that reminds me of....
[09:51.06]"不要打断说：“噢!是的，那提醒我...”
[09:53.63]and start to tell your story.
[09:55.46]并开始说你的故事。
[09:57.29]If someone has a serious problem,or illness or sadness,
[10:00.32]如果有人有严重的问题，或者疾病和悲伤，
[10:03.35]this is not the time to talk about a similar event in your life
[10:05.99]不要说在你的生活中也有同样的事情。
[10:08.63]that happened years ago.
[10:10.25]在数年前发生过。
[10:11.87]Most of us are able to solve most of our problems.
[10:14.60]我们大多数人都可以解决大部分的问题。
[10:17.33]Often,all we need is a good friend who will listen to us
[10:20.16]往往我们所需要的，不过是一位能倾听我们
[10:22.99]while we "talk things through".
[10:24.72]“畅叙衷肠”的好朋友。
[10:26.44]If friends can take turns to listen to each other well,
[10:31.20]life will be better!
[10:36.67]如果朋友之间能够轮流倾听，生活会变得更美好！