疯狂英语口语现场 Un03_5

[00:00.00]Five    You can’t change a child’s behavior by using force!
[00:03.34]你不能用武力改变一个小孩的行为！
[00:06.69]1   Introduction
[00:09.85]In America, children are well protected by law.
[00:13.27]在美国，孩子是受到法律严格保护的。
[00:16.69]If parents beat or kick their kids and the police know that,
[00:19.42]如果父母亲打伤或踢伤小孩，警察知道后，
[00:22.15]the bruises on the kids can cause the parents to be put in jail.
[00:24.83]小孩身上的伤痕就可以使父母亲被关进监狱
[00:27.51]Or sometimes the children will be separated from being with their parents
[00:30.18]如果父母亲虐待他们的小孩的话，或者有时候小孩不能再和父母亲生活在一起，
[00:32.86]and put in a social service, if the parents maltreat them.
[00:35.44]而被送往社会服务机构。
[00:38.01]Sometimes the parents are punished, even when they have not harmed a child,
[00:40.99]有时候即使父母亲没有伤害小孩，
[00:43.96]but the authorities believe the parents have done wrong.
[00:46.25]但是官方认为有罪的话，父母亲还是得受到惩罚。
[00:48.54]2   Sample Sentences
[00:53.19]1.  Have you ever asked your relatives, friends, neighbors,
[00:56.92]你有没有问过你的亲戚朋友、邻居
[01:00.66]and colleagues at work about what kind of childcare do they use?
[01:03.58]你有没有问过你的亲戚朋友、邻居
[01:06.51]2.Does the kindergarten plan activities every day?
[01:09.64]幼儿园每天都计划有活动吗？
[01:12.78]3.Are the children you see absorbed in what they are doing?
[01:16.41]你看见的小孩有没有全神贯注在做他们的事？
[01:20.04]4.In general, the more adults there are,
[01:23.81]一般来说，那儿成年人越多，
[01:27.59]the more likely it is that your child will receive individual attention
[01:30.87]你的小孩就更有可能时常被人照看到，
[01:34.15]and adequate supervision at all times.
[01:36.37]被管理得更周全。
[01:38.59]5.I know you want to have the feeling of security.
[01:41.51]我知道你想有种安全感。
[01:44.44]6.Regarding our son’s behavior,
[01:47.12]关于我们儿子的行为，
[01:49.79]I suggest that he be treated with patience, affection, and respect.
[01:53.21]我建议你耐心照看他、爱他并且尊重他。
[01:56.64]7. Doug and Beth often threaten very quickly to punish their son
[02:00.16]  道格和贝斯经常很快就威胁惩罚他们的儿子，
[02:03.69]if he behaves differently from their expectations.
[02:06.17]如果他不听他们的话。
[02:08.65]8. I think you already realize that punishment does not always produce good children,
[02:13.08]我想你已经意识到了惩罚并不总是培养出好孩子，
[02:17.51]and many times harshness produces maladjusted children.
[02:20.33]很多时候严厉导致小孩失调。
[02:23.15]9. I assure you that the way to teach our boy to be a good person
[02:27.07]我敢保证教育我们儿子做个好人的方法
[02:30.99]is for the adults around him to see the good in him.
[02:33.31]就是在他身边的大人看到他好的方面。
[02:35.64]10. Children learn to be happy by learning how to think.
[02:39.57]   小孩子要想学会做一个快乐的人就是要学会怎么思考。
[02:43.50]3  Conversations
[02:48.54]A:  I don’t want you to be worried, but our son has some bad habits now.
[02:52.17]——我不想让你担心，但是我们的儿子现在有些坏习惯了
[02:55.80]He says painful words everyday.
[02:57.78]他每天都说些伤人的话。
[02:59.75]B:  What words?  Can you tell me?
[03:01.73]——什么话？你能告诉我吗？
[03:03.72]A:  He says “kick mommy, beat mommy, don’t want mommy”
[03:06.84]他很快就说“踢妈妈、打妈妈，不要妈妈”。
[03:09.96]very quickly if I do something that he doesn’t like.
[03:12.39]如果我做什么事他不喜欢
[03:14.82]You know, if I wash his face or change his clothes, things like that.
[03:17.69]你知道的，像跟他洗脸或者换衣服之类的事。
[03:20.57]B:  Honey, I don’t know what to tell you.  Of course Tony is a young child.
[03:23.79]——亲爱的，我不知道该怎么跟你说。当然托尼还是个小孩子。
[03:27.02]But do not underestimate his ability to learn and reason.
[03:29.45]但不要小看他学习、讲道理的能力。
[03:31.88]A:  Yes, but sometimes he is just not reasonable.
[03:34.47]——是啊，但是有时候他就是很不讲理。