疯狂英语口语现场 Un03_5

[03:37.05]B:  I suggest you treat him with patience, affection, and respect.
[03:40.13]我建议你多点耐心，爱他，尊重他
[03:43.22]If he needs to do something, like go to bed, or be washed, etc.
[03:46.04]如果他需要上床睡觉、或者被清洗之类的，
[03:48.86]please "guide or help" him to get it done, but lead him with gentleness.
[03:51.94]请指引或者帮助他完成，但是一定要温柔。
[03:55.02]A:  It’s easy to say, but I will try.
[03:57.24]——说来很容易，但是我还是会尽量去做。
[03:59.46]B:  Motivate Tony to cooperate by rewarding his good behavior.
[04:02.44]要和托尼合作好，你就要奖励他给他积极性。
[04:05.42]Do not emphasize punishment for bad moods, etc.
[04:08.05]不要因为坏脾气就强调要惩罚他。
[04:10.67]Do not threaten him with punishment if he resists the actions you desire.
[04:13.64]不要因为他不按照你的做就威胁要惩罚他。
[04:16.60]A:  I know my parents sometimes threaten to punish him.
[04:19.13]我知道我的父母有时候就威胁要惩罚他。
[04:21.67]But this doesn’t work; instead he picks up another bad habit.
[04:24.54]但是这不但不管用，反而他又学多了一个坏习惯。
[04:27.42]Chinese:  Paul, you were also a parent of young kids before.
[04:30.90]——鲍尔，你以前也是孩子的父亲
[04:34.39]So, can you tell me what you did when your kids didn’t behave very well?
[04:37.37]那么，你能告诉我你的小孩捣乱时你是怎么做的吗？
[04:40.35]American:  I know Mark is your only child.
[04:42.32]——我知道马克是你唯一的小孩。
[04:44.29]You may do it differently from what I did.
[04:46.47]你可能和我当初做的不一样。
[04:48.65]Sometimes I would tap their hands when they made troubles.
[04:51.13]当他们惹祸时，有时候我会轻拍他们的手。
[04:53.62]Chinese:  I do it, too.  You know, sometimes when we eat,
[04:56.19]我也这么做。你知道，有时候我们吃饭，
[04:58.76]my child would pull a dish towards him and grab it with his hands and eat.
[05:01.64]我的小孩会把菜拖到他的面前，用手抓着来吃。
[05:04.51]And if it were something he doesn’t like,
[05:06.53]而且如果是他不喜欢吃的，
[05:08.56]he would spit it out and throw it into other dishes.
[05:11.08]他就会吐出来，扔到其他菜里。
[05:13.60]He does it very often.  I really get mad.  I can’t help spank him sometimes.
[05:17.28]他经常这样做。我很气愤。有时候我忍不住打他的屁股。
[05:20.97]American:  And what does your husband do?
[05:22.99]——那你丈夫怎么办？
[05:25.02]Chinese:  My husband is an American.  He criticizes me when I do that.
[05:27.89]我丈夫是个美国人。他批评我那样做。
[05:30.76]He says that I can’t change a child’s behavior by using force.
[05:33.70]他说我不能用武力改变一个小孩的行为。
[05:36.64]He is learning what I am doing now.
[05:38.66]他会学我现在所做的
[05:40.69]American:  But spoiling a child is not going to do him good either！
[05:43.28]但是溺爱小孩也不会对他有什么帮助！
[05:45.86]You’ve got to have patience with him and teach him.
[05:48.04]你得耐心教他。
[05:50.22]It’s not easy, I know.  It’s hard.
[05:52.35]我知道这并不容易。很难
[05:54.48]Chinese:  Yeah.  I’m still learning how to control his behavior and my temper.
[05:57.37]是啊。我还在学习怎么控制他的行为和我的脾气。
[06:00.25]My child is almost two years old,
[06:02.23]我的小孩快两岁了，
[06:04.20]and I’ve learnt the “distraction” technique when he cries for something.
[06:06.72]当他哭着要某样东西时，我学会了分散他的注意力
[06:09.24]4  Words and Expressions
[06:12.58]1. underestimate
[06:14.50] 低估; 对...估计不足
[06:16.42]2. affection
[06:18.25]情爱, 钟爱
[06:20.08]3. motivate
[06:21.77]给...动机; 刺激
[06:23.45]4. cooperate
[06:25.23]合作, 协作
[06:27.00]5. reward
[06:28.73]奖赏, 报偿
[06:30.45]6. threaten
[06:32.18]威胁, 恐吓
[06:33.90]7. resist
[06:35.64]抵抗, 反抗
[06:37.37]8. tap
[06:38.99]轻拍
[06:40.61]9. grab
[06:41.12]抓取, 霸占
[06:41.63]10. spank
[06:43.32](用手掌)打...的屁股
[06:45.00]11. spoil
[06:46.92]宠坏, 溺爱
[06:48.84]12. distraction
[06:54.01]注意力分散